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Time:	9:03 am.
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My dearest Tiffany, Here is your update! :)

We have been doing pretty good, other than a few things. Which we are getting professional help for. Another good thing about the Army, they pay for 12 sessions of therapy. Anyways, about that I guess. Larry as I'm sure you all know from my rants, is a pathological liar. Idealy thats not so bad, but patho. liars usually only lie to a certain group or person. As the therapist said. And I'm the only person Larry lies to. Go figure. Usually its about stupid irrelevent stuff, but some major things have come up in the past, and I never know whats the truth. I've gotten a lot better at calling him out on it, and even though I can stop him mid sentence and say your lying, it doesn't stop him. So I finally had a breakdown and told him to either get help or I'm leaving him. So he called that day and set up an appointment. The doctor flat out told him he would have a very hard time helping Larry. And it will be very hard for Larry to stop. And he asked me a few things and the bottom line is, as he so kindly put it, Larry has either got to learn to know when he is lying and then learn how to stop it, or I will have to leave him. He was really nice and professional. Pretty much what you see on t.v. So yeah on the 30th he wants to se just Larry for a few sessions, then both of us together. And we will go from there.

Okay, so enough about that, we are finally done Christmas shopping. I stood in line at the post office for 40 minutes yesterday to mail off some stuff. The line was out the door! Crazy! We got Ava way too much stuff. I know we spoiled her this year. But it doesn't help that its our only Christmas we've had together as a family. :( I got Larry a few things. He wanted some Craftsman tools. And those things are outrageously exspensive. So he got a toolbox, a hammer and some screwdrivers. lol! I did get him an iPod Nano. Which cost more than anything else. But I know he will really like it. Plus when he's in Iraq he can send me videos from it! So it has a dual purpose! I got him so boxers and shirts and a few pajama pants and thats it! I have no clue what I got. I asked for kitchen stuff. But he got me some jewelry. Mom let that slip. But yeah, we got Ava a play kitchen. Thats her big gift and then we got stuff to go with it. And a few other toys. Okay a lot of other toys. Its hard to stop when your buying for your child. Its like did we get her enough? Did we go overboard? lol! She is very spoiled. But she's an only child, so I think she supposed to be.

I watched Julie & Julia last night. I liked it. After I read Heathers post about the Darcy book I went out and got it for myself and read it! It was sooo good!!! So thank you Heather! I'm on book two now. Which is really good too. I didn't know there were so many different takes on Pride and Prejudice. But there are a ton of books that take place after the first book by Jane Austin. I would love to read them all. The love story is so beautiful. I finished a book called Wings a few weeks ago. Stephanie Meyer recomends it. So I saw it in Target for 12$ and got it. It starts off slow, which I hate in books, but it turned out to be really good. I'm looking forward to the sequel. So Tiffany, there is my recomendation! :)
Wings by Aprilynne Pike.

Lets see Thanksgiving was really good, I cooked a ham and all the fixings. Larry and mom really enjoyed it. We went and seen Couples Retreat a few weeks ago on our date night and it was really good. We haven't gone out since then though. Having to save up for Christmas. I did go see New Moon. It was awesome. But ya'll already knew that!

I had a UTI infection last week, and it is gone, but Larry wanted to do the deed last night and I said okay. But omg sex hurt like whoa! And I think I've lost my orgasm. I know it sounds silly, but as hard as I tried to get into it, I just couldn't climax. So I faked it and told him he was awesome. Usually if I don't climax during, he will make sure I go, but I was in pain. So I told him he was amazing and all that. Guys are so weird about that sort of thing. You slip up and say you don't climax everytime and they get all wounded and hurt. I don't get it. Most of the time I don't even want sex, I just do it to make sure he's happy. I think I've hit that rut in a marriage. Where its just not that important. I used to be like oh we didn't have sex last night, somethings wrong! lol! But now I'm too tired to care most nights. Plus the pain doesn't help either.

Anyways, enough about my sex life. I've been looking for places to live on Craigslist. And there's not a lot of options. Its either too exspensive or the place looks crappy. I would like to stay in the Oxford area, but I don't want to spend more than 700$ a month. The apartments I used to live in are 600$ a month now. So I figured 700$ is a safe range to rent at. I want a yard so Ava can play. And I would like a three bedroom, just for the extra room. But I will live in a 2bd. I will have to stay with mom or Christy for a while, cuz I have no furniture over there, and I'm not shipping my stuff home. So I gotta get stuff before I can even find a place to live. But thats at leat 6 months away.....

I hope this update was enough for you dearest Tiffany! I have to go get Ava up and feed her breakfast. Sorry I've been out of the loop. I just haven't felt like I had anything to update about.

I hope you all have a verry Merry Christmas!!!!!!

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